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BJ and I woke up this morning to Kate!  She was "talking" in her room.  I love the little snippets.  She likes to say "bad girl" and then laugh!  Then started calling me, Mum Mum Mum.  Cracks us up.  We love going in her room to get her.  So full of joy.  Always ready for a new day!  This Saturday morning she brought her blocks to BJ to play.  This is our life.  Our children.  We would do anything for them.  All our children are gifts from God.  We never know how the road we travel will turn out.  We do the best we can to share God and love.  The most important part of life is kindness.  We teach kindness and forgiveness.  Our children practice this daily.  We are hoping they don't have the obstacles we have been dealt, but we all know they will have others.

My husband BJ is my best friend.  Everything we stand for or against, we stand together.  BJ is a fantastic husband and a spectacular dad.  He loves us, unconditionally.  He is my partner.  When we reflect on our relationship, we see God's hand was in our lives together.  We are committed to this marriage and life.  We try to live in His Divine Will.

We have choices.  We make them everyday.  Special needs families are different because it completely takes you to the unknown, which is a little frightening.  Even if you brought up four children and then have a special needs child, it is all brand new.  An unknown highway.  We struggle greatly to make the right decisions for Kate.  The right therapies, down to the right people in her life.  Along the way we have many many people to thank for their love and support.  We can reach out for help.  We are so grateful.  Many a friend, sister or my Mom have always made time to just listen and always have a hug waiting.

We want to thank all you friends and family that have always been supportive.  On days when we felt lost or hopeless, your prayers carried us.  The overwhelming LOVE without conditions can't be emphasized enough.  Here is to new beginnings and Spring!















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