Skip to main content

The Men in Kate's Life

A dad, a husband, a son and a Priest all go to a party...want to know how this turns out?  Well, it is still going on, it is the party of Heaven and earth.  My Dad passed away Wednesday, July 26, 2006.  Worst day of my life.  It will be eleven years this July.  I miss him every single day.  Now I remember the great talks and all the laughter.  I ask him to pray for me and my family.  I know he knows Kate.  I know he is a guardian for her.

 A husband, my husband.  The love of my life and what a life.  All of our children adore this man.  One day I asked him if he ever regretted having all these children and even Kate because of how hard this is sometimes.  He said he couldn't imagine his life without any of them.  He adores them more than they can even comprehend.  BJ reminds me of how we loved my Dad.  I remember how much BJ loved dinners at my parents house.  So much love and laughter.  All were welcome!  My Dad would "hold court".  Telling stories about being a kid or police stories!  We all would be laughing and hating to go home.  When my Dad died, BJ and his brother were building my parents a home.  Because, these men served where they were needed.  Now BJ has big Sunday dinners and tells everyone his stories, life comes full circle.

 My son.  My life changed the day I found out I was pregnant with Beau.  Then it changed again as I looked into his beautiful eyes when he was two days old and promised him we would bring him up with God as our center.  I remember my prayers for him.  Always trying to do the best for him.  Then he grew up to be one of the kindest people I know.  He is my great friend.  He makes me laugh at things I shouldn't...but mostly at myself.  He picked his future wife Angel and we think she is perfect for him.  I love her as a daughter.  She is also so very kind.  I thank God everyday for these blessings.  If a parent does one thing right, it is to bring up a child to be kind to everyone and especially the disabled, and less fortunate.  Beau and Angel more than fit this.  Both of them great advocates for Kate.  Funny that people don't realize the full package with this Blessed family of mine, we will not be divided.  We love each other and are not capable of hatred.

So who is the Priest?  Well, it isn't just one.  It is a few great men.  Everyone of them taught me something that went directly to my soul. When I would be afraid or distraught, encouraging words of wisdom were shared.  The most profound words were, God knew exactly what he was doing when he made Kate and sent her to you.  I have shared those words with BJ and the kids.  I thank God for these priests that touched our lives.  Kate's first friend is a priest, just as it should be.












Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Cookie Cutter Parenting

When I first became a parent I was looking to be exactly like other Catholic parents, whatever that was.  I immunized Beau and Maria.  I put them in pre-school because they would never get into Harvard if I didn't.  I bought the "Happy Meals" because that was what all the other moms did.  I dressed them like all the other kids.  We celebrated Santa and then God.  Why oh why was I so unhappy?  I had everything I wanted, so I thought. One day I turned and saw a disaster following me.  A Catholic School run by feminists of the worst kind.  Caring more about academics and fundraising than the souls of these little people.  We were raising them to put God on the back burner.   God knew exactly what to do.  I became pregnant with Ireland.  I had secondary infertility.  I was very busy when I became pregnant.  I was working part-time for the Catholic Pre-School, working part-time as a Waitress at a place that ha...
Post a Comment
Read more

Good Morning Americans

This morning I turned on GMA.  GMA standing for Good Morning America!  Really?  The news they put out is anything but good.  Today the ticker at the bottom of the screen read that milk was going up $.60.   Here .  BUT this is what was supposed to happen.   Here.   Coffee prices are going up.   Here.   The best is fuel!  Gas prices escalate.   Here. Let's talk about jobs...  Here is what the government says.   Here.   The reality is " In a phone call,  Harvard Business School  Entrepreneurship and Strategy Professor Joe Fuller called the numbers “more of the same.” While he felt the headline jobs number was “a disappointment even in the context of a decaying picture for jobs growth,” Fuller warns that”trying to read a lot into month to month data is a fools errand. There is, however, something in these numbers that’s unsettling. Even though we talk about the period from July to November being good rela...
Post a Comment
Read more

Don't Judge a Special Needs Family

Have you ever been misunderstood? Have you ever tried to do the right thing and have a whole bunch of wicked come hurling at you? What did you do? Did you start to endlessly explain your motives so it could be twisted by the few people that dislike you? Or did you stay silent? Staying silent is not my strong point, thus the blog.;) When I became pregnant with Looly (Kate), I noticed some big changes within myself. I had to fight to keep her alive because of a difficult pregnancy. Then at the end of my pregnancy I had to fight to keep us both alive. Then we were told Looly had Down Syndrome. At that time, we were grateful to God that she was alive and later we were thanking God that her heart was healthy and there was no neurological damage. She just has Down Syndrome. Just Down Syndrome. Say those words...just Down Syndrome. That is what I do, I simplify difficult things, then reflect and think I'm crazy. I was connected to this child at conception. I begged God to let me car...
Post a Comment
Read more